To love someone comes with a great responsibility and hard wok. You need to gain trust, respect for each other and love. Love is not what you can give and what the other one should give in return. It's not also giving up on what you have for you to be able to prove your love. It's how you handle things, problems, and how willing you are to give your best shot in holding on to your relationship. Don't look for someone who will let go of everything he/she has, but instead, find someone who is willing to just hold on no matter what happens.
As the line of a song says; Love always finds a way. People find their ways to show and prove their love to their love ones. Whenever there comes a time that problems occur and they wanted to just leave and go on their separate ways, their love for each other would be the ones binding them together. It's on them to choose whatever path they wanted to go, if they'll stay or go. But definitely, people who wanted to stay would always finds their way.
Just wanna share this stanza from one of the songs i like: "Way back into love"
All I wanna do is find a way back into love,
I can't make it through without a way
back into love,
And if I open my heart to you,
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do,
And if you help me to start again,
You know that I'll be there for you in the end!
It is sometimes faster for other's to judge people even though they don't personally know them. Even if we really know a person, or we have known them for years, we have no right to judge or discredit their lives as if we don't have our own mistakes. We don't judge a person according to what we see, what we know about them cause sometimes, what we know isn't all that they've got.
Some people look for friends that's wealthy or has a say in the society. Some are treating their friends like a garbage when they have nothing to give or they can't benefit on them. Some became instantly your best friend even though in the past you hardly see each other nor talk, but because you became lucky and gain something, there they are. Some are opportunistic, that once you had given them favors they'll hold on you tight not because they needed you as their friends but because they need something from you. We can't choose people and we can't blame them that is why we have to know who really are our friends.
Some people fails to notice what a certain person can offer or can do to them. Let's just take someone you love for example, they sometimes takes you for granted, not because your not good enough, it's because they know that no matter what they do you are always there for them. So there competent enough that they won't loose you. They barely notice your existence and importance because your always there. Let them know for themselves how much your worth is. That you are worth it and not just an ordinary person that should be rejected.
Always trust within yourself and do your best in everything that you do. Whenever were in trouble, don't think that were alone in this battle. God wants us to know our strength and weakness so we will be able to survive every problems, trials, and everything that we maybe able to encounter in our lives. Trust in god for he would always be there for us in every trial and success.
Sometimes even though it's hard for us to just forget the past and leave the bad memories behind, we can never do it at all most especially when the person involve has a special part in our hearts. We can say that its kinda weird or something, that whatever we do they're still stuck on our minds. And no matter where we go there are things or places that could remind them on us. We don't have to force ourselves to just leave it all in the past cause remember that all things happens for a reason and we had experienced all that because it is destined. Let's just think of it as a part of our life that we had learn, experience, and gain something to someone who had a given us enough memories that we can treasure.
