Waiting for the right time, perfect day... That's alright, it's just that sometimes, waiting for that time to come isn't a good idea. Some things should be done according to it's availability. We have to do things right and doing it the right way doesn't necessarily means that we have to wait until the right time comes. It's always better to try and try til we finally made it perfectly. There's no harm in trying. And as they say.... Practice makes perfect!
A message, may it be in a form of a letter, note, or a text that comes to your love ones or someone that is dear to you could mean a lot. They might not say it to you but their silence means something. Some of us are ashamed to show our love for others, some don't know how, and some find it hard to express what's inside their heart. Don't be afraid to show or say whats inside of you, cause that means a lot to the ones you love.
As it was stated, there are two reasons why we change or why we wanted to change. One is that for all that we've experience in the past, we wanted some changes in our lives to become better. And the other one is because of all the hurt, pain and struggles that we barely know our true selves. For all this, we change because we wanted to change for the better, for ourselves and not for other people. It is pleasant to change for yourself but don't instill anger in your heart.
Men and women stay single cause sometimes they're tired of just giving all their love and everything but instead of feeling the same way from their partners, they never felt something. They say that if you love someone, don't wait for something in return, but if your in a relationship you both should give an effort for your relationship to succeed. So instead of giving and staying inside a relationship it's better for them to just be alone and be with their friends who will love them unconditionally.
In life, we will encounter different types of people, others are good enough to be one of your friends while others are somehow don't have something good to say. Don't let anyone pulls you down. Remember that in everything we do we give our 100% so don't ever think or listen to what other people might say. Don't take it personally or seriously cause if you take it that way you'll be the one to suffer. Take it as a comment or a lesson for you to learn and not as a bad thing. People are people so let it be.
To love someone comes with a great responsibility and hard wok. You need to gain trust, respect for each other and love. Love is not what you can give and what the other one should give in return. It's not also giving up on what you have for you to be able to prove your love. It's how you handle things, problems, and how willing you are to give your best shot in holding on to your relationship. Don't look for someone who will let go of everything he/she has, but instead, find someone who is willing to just hold on no matter what happens.
As the line of a song says; Love always finds a way. People find their ways to show and prove their love to their love ones. Whenever there comes a time that problems occur and they wanted to just leave and go on their separate ways, their love for each other would be the ones binding them together. It's on them to choose whatever path they wanted to go, if they'll stay or go. But definitely, people who wanted to stay would always finds their way.
Just wanna share this stanza from one of the songs i like: "Way back into love"
All I wanna do is find a way back into love,
I can't make it through without a way
back into love,
And if I open my heart to you,
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do,
And if you help me to start again,
You know that I'll be there for you in the end!
It is sometimes faster for other's to judge people even though they don't personally know them. Even if we really know a person, or we have known them for years, we have no right to judge or discredit their lives as if we don't have our own mistakes. We don't judge a person according to what we see, what we know about them cause sometimes, what we know isn't all that they've got.
Some people look for friends that's wealthy or has a say in the society. Some are treating their friends like a garbage when they have nothing to give or they can't benefit on them. Some became instantly your best friend even though in the past you hardly see each other nor talk, but because you became lucky and gain something, there they are. Some are opportunistic, that once you had given them favors they'll hold on you tight not because they needed you as their friends but because they need something from you. We can't choose people and we can't blame them that is why we have to know who really are our friends.
Some people fails to notice what a certain person can offer or can do to them. Let's just take someone you love for example, they sometimes takes you for granted, not because your not good enough, it's because they know that no matter what they do you are always there for them. So there competent enough that they won't loose you. They barely notice your existence and importance because your always there. Let them know for themselves how much your worth is. That you are worth it and not just an ordinary person that should be rejected.
Always trust within yourself and do your best in everything that you do. Whenever were in trouble, don't think that were alone in this battle. God wants us to know our strength and weakness so we will be able to survive every problems, trials, and everything that we maybe able to encounter in our lives. Trust in god for he would always be there for us in every trial and success.
Sometimes even though it's hard for us to just forget the past and leave the bad memories behind, we can never do it at all most especially when the person involve has a special part in our hearts. We can say that its kinda weird or something, that whatever we do they're still stuck on our minds. And no matter where we go there are things or places that could remind them on us. We don't have to force ourselves to just leave it all in the past cause remember that all things happens for a reason and we had experienced all that because it is destined. Let's just think of it as a part of our life that we had learn, experience, and gain something to someone who had a given us enough memories that we can treasure.
I still believe that dreams do come true. Even though my dreams aren't fulfilled yet, i had faith that all that we wish for will come true, in time and if it is really meant for us. Sometimes we want to just give up all our dreams, but how can our dreams could come true if we don't fight for it. Right? We should and always have to believe in ourselves, in our capacity to achieve our goal and help ourselves to make it into reality. Don't stop believing. Who know's..
Hmmm...
Some people who had nothing else to do with their life sometimes can't think straight. They ask their friends about what's been happening with their lives and act as if their just concern. They give them advice and some encouragement for them to feel that they are with them. But then, some people you consider your friends are not really your real friends. They would tell your other friends about what you had said and some might have add some more flavors or make up stories. I'm not saying that you shouldn't told anyone about your problems or something like that, it's just that you have to choose your friends. You have to know if they're sincere, honest and reliable, for you have to know if they're just there to spread news or gossips about you. We all have and need friends that we can trust, the one we can share and would understand us most especially when it comes to our secrets.
Sometimes we tend to see the deficiencies of other people. On what they do, could it be right or wrong on your part. The way they act in front of their friends or partners. Even the way they dress. Why can't other people mind their own business? Why can't they see their own deficiencies and problems? Most people likes to interfere on other people instead of looking for solutions to their own problems. Others have a lot to say for they're not on the place of the person their talking about. I'm not saying that we should not bother asking them most especially when they are our friends, but we are all not perfect and we do some things that for other people is not acceptable so don't bother criticizing them cause we all have our own problems to attend to. And even if we don't have our own problems, it would never be right to judge other people.
As they say, we can live our lives according to what we want or how we wanted it to be. Others say live your life to the fullest or live your life differently each day. Some would say live your life according to what is planned. We can always choose on how we should live and how we want to live our lives. We always have a choice, may it be right or wrong, right way or turned, good or bad.
We can live it anyway we want but, always remember that we only have one life to live so be sure to spend it wisely.
We live life not just to become rich or famous. We live life to enjoy every days gift, to gain experience, to live by the moments. Treasure your friends, love ones and be grateful with the moments you shared with them. Don't count your ways and achievements, instead count the times that you had given yourself a chance to be with the ones you love. Live by the moments and enjoy every single details.
Everyday we wake up each day and do a lot of things. May it be your everyday routine, like your household chores or on your work. We have the whole day to do whatever we have to do or portray and be part of a troubled world. But in the end of each day, we are still the same person that goes out our bed, who sleeps on our favorite position and dressed up with our favorite pajamas. With all that you do and after all that you do, It's still you.
Some people think that distance could be a factor for a relationship to last. Yes it is! But it shouldn't be the only factor to consider for a relationship to last. Relationships, no matter how long the distance maybe would last if they really love each other. Communication, trust and love must be the factors you both should consider so that a long distance relationship could work. Anyways, if you really love a person, there's no distance, no but's, no what if's. Nothing could go wrong if you both believe.
Self expectations, possibilities, feelings. We sometimes feel that were so dumb for feeling certain feelings we shouldn't feel. For expecting
and wanting something. Always think that in life there are no guarantees so don't hate yourself for feeling something that you shouldn't feel. As they always say, smile though your heart is aching and keep smiling for they won't know whats on your mind. Live and love.
Sometimes people doesn't understand why we do things, why we have to do such things. Like for example, hurting someones feelings. Not to the extent or not as morbid as you think that could hurt the person physically. There are times that when you love a person, you're not thinking of yourself anymore, even though sometimes it's started to hurt you. You just think of him/her not knowing that he/she doesn't gives back the effort for your relationship and as time goes by you would be the one to be left out. It's not that bad to give and not to take in return but there's always a limitation to that. Your not helping him/her and he/she won't feel what you feel, cause you see, in a relationship it should always be a give and take relationship. Besides, if that person really loves you like you do he/she would feel what you feels.
We can always start a new beginning so that we could make a new ending. We can't turn back time to see where did we go wrong or when did you start to go through the wrong way. It's like every day, it gives us a new day, a fresh start. Every time we commit mistakes there's no turning back, all we have to do is to get through it and wait for the proper timing for us to start a new. As we try to start and make things better for us, don't be afraid to fall. Don't loose hope. In every ending there's always a new beginning.
There would come a time that you won't be able to say those words to the person that you love or those who are dear and close to you. Don't waste your time waiting for the right time and the right moment. Say it while you still have the time to say whatever it is that you need to say. Tell them how you feel, it doesn't matter if they feel the same way too. What matter is that you'd be able to express your feelings on them. Don't be afraid of rejection's or because your scared of what they'd be able to say or how they would react to the things you said. At least you had the guts and for whatever the result maybe, you had said it while you still can.
Never base you life decisions
on advice from people
who don't have to deal
with the results...
Decision making should always comes to us or the person involve. Yes, we can seek for some advice most especially from our friends but not to the extent that we have to follow it. Advice can help us and we can get some key points on how to handle some things. We can also take it as an example, or take it as the results of their experiences. We always have the last say. Always keep in mind that we should be the one to make decisions for ourselves and no other person could just tell us what to do.
Sometimes we feel that we don't belong to any of the group, or one of your friends group. There are times that we always think that we are not one of them and felt left out. That's life! We can't do anything about it, except to accept their treatment and don't feel bad about it. There would come a time that they will be able to see us and acknowledge our presence. Let's just think of the positive side of being left out. Like, we would be able to be used of being alone, doing somethings that we weren't have done before cause we are busy thinking of the ways for us to be recognize by our friends, going to places that we want to go to, but our friends doesn't wants to go with us and many more. Don't feel bad, who knows maybe they're not really your friends. Cause real friends don't treat their friends like that... Hmmm...
God knows what's best for each one of us. He won't give us something that he know's we won't be able to get through it. In times of trouble and hard times, we always think that god doesn't care about us or don't mind what will happened to us. Sometimes god only wants to test us, to give us a lesson. He gives us something to think of and for our faith to get stronger as we surpass the test. He knows when he would come for us and to help us. God is good. Believe and have faith.
Nothing in this world is easy. Who said it was easy? We always have to strive hard for what we wish for. In order to achieve what we want, we should be ready to accept the challenges accompanied to it. There's no easy way, no shortcuts and no clues. You should be the one to help yourself and the only one who could help you achieve your goal. Think of the possible outcome as a prize. As you struggle to achieve your goal you'll be able to gain something on your way up, so learn, try and never give up. For this you can say that for all that i went through, it's worth it!
We have to face it. Each day is not as good as yesterday or the other days that we had, nor tomorrow. Everyday, we wake up with lots of expectations for the day. We want that day to be as good as possible, but who knows what's gonna happen within the day. Right? Everyday may not be as good as we expected it to be but the good thing is that we are given another day to live and every "day" is a beautiful blessing that we should be thankful for. Remember, each day may it be a good or a not so good one, we should always keep it in mind that there's always a new day that's waiting for us. Who know's the next day is the day that you've been waiting for.
Being different doesn't necessarily means that your good, cool or you will be able to stand out. You should always be yourself, trust in whatever you are able to do and let the rest follow. Being good is one of the nicest attitude one has to offer. Don't try to be different or be a copy cat of another person. Be true and be yourself. Be proud!
Don't be afraid to commit or make mistakes for we are only humans and we're not perfect. We sometimes avoid making mistakes but as we do something we tend to create more mistakes. Life is full of obstacles, misadventures, it's not the way we always wants it to be. Accept it, but by always trying to be on our best we will become better persons and as we try, we learned from it and develop ourselves.
All of us do pray, and as we pray we always think of a lot of things. What should we pray or what should we ask for. Mostly we ask for good health, work and family related matters but there are times that we ask god for something that we want to have or achieve and when the time comes that we expected our prayer will be granted we tend to ask god why we didn't make it. We all know that god listens to each and every one of our prayers and not all of those prayers will be granted. It maybe granted and will be given to you as time goes by or when you least expected it, till the right time comes. Not all our prayers will be granted for god knows whats right for all of us. It may be sad for us but don't put your blame on him cause he only gives us what he know's could be better.
There are times that what we wanted is to just forget everything that happened and give up. Giving up on something that we wanted for all time was not the only solution. We should always kept in mind what we want and pursue it no matter how hard and for how long would it take for us to fulfill it. Remember the reason why we wanted it, for it will keeps and boost us to hold on tight. Make that reason be your strength and always think that, that is want you wanted.
May it be an endless miles, a countless years or even prosy silence friendship doesn't fade. Others may have their own life to live, have migrated or have change location, some may choose to keep their silence but friendship will always be there and no matter what each of us has our own choice. To be with them and build a lot of wonderful memories and experiences or to be with them in spirit, wish them all the best and be happy for them. Friends may leave you but the friendship will remain forever.
Happiness is a good feeling that we feel whenever were happy, or something wonderful happens. We don't look for happiness. It will come. Don't try to look for it cause as you try to search and look for happiness, it would never ever come. Real and true happiness comes as we least expect it. Be content for there are lots of things in life that could make us happy.
I remember the movie "A walk to remember", a movie that touches everyone's heart. A love that is pure and has no boundaries, a love that no matter what happens they will always be there for each other. Love is patient. Love is kind. So what if there's a lot of obstacles, problems, a lot of people that is against your love? If you really love a person, love him/her unconditionally. No but's and what if's. Hold on to what your heart tells you to do. Never give up and have faith cause giving up is a sign of not fighting for what you really feels. You have to fight for it and no matter what or where this leads you, be happy for you had love and feel loved the way you want it.
Marlyn Monroe says..
"I'm not a perfect girl. My hair doesn't always stay in place. I spill a lot of things and i'm pretty clumsy. But when i think about it & take a step back, i remember how amazing my life truly is & that maybe.. I like being Imperfect."
As she say, people are not perfect and we don't live to be perfect. What's important is we live our life the way we want it. For as long as we didn't do any harm to other people. Life's not perfect, we are not perfect.
Problems, experiences, pain. Most of us always thinks of how we should take our life's burdens. How we can survive and get through it the easiest and fastest way. We struggle for us to learn, to be strong and to be the person that who we are right now. I can't really say that we should be thankful for all the hard times but surely we have learn something for every hurt, hard times and every pain we encounter.
"Be strong.."
Sometimes when i say "im ok",
i want someone to look me in the eyes,
hug me tight and say,
"i know you're not ok"....
True friends know what and how you feels. It's not because of the way you act in front of them or the way you speak. Your mind and heart speaks for yourself, to your friends. They understands you even if you don't tell them anything. Look at the persons eye and you'll see what's inside. Don't ask someone what's wrong, just simply say don't worry everything's gonna be ok... soon.
We can have a lot of friends, companion, buddies and so on, but there are only a few or one that knows us from inside out. It's nice to know whenever there's someone that truly knows everything about you, i mean every details of you. Someone that could defend you to anyone 'cause they know who you really are. The one that knows what you want, what you need, what would make you happy and all that. You don't need to ask, to remind or to give some clues for them to know what you feel and sometimes they're the one who know's you more than you know yourself. Keep them close to you and treasure them cause only a few would remain.
Sometimes we don't need to say anything or do everything for someone just to make him/her feel that he/she's not alone. For them to feel that they are loved and appreciated. Sitting beside them, being with them whenever they need you and even not. Giving them some time would make them feel important. Being with them when they needed you the most and giving them a hug would be the best gift you could give to someone who has going through a lot. HUGS to friendships!!!
Always say thank you for everything. May it be a thing, person, blessing, news, work, your life, etc. Saying thank you means a lot most especially to someone. It could mean something to someone. It could also mean appreciation even though it's really nothing. So i guess this is the part where i should say thank you to all that's been reading and keeps on visiting my blog even though it's none sense. Hmmmm... Thank you guys... for the endless support.... God Bless..
We all have our thank you's most especially our thank you's for everything god had given us.
Lord God, thank you for everything, for all the things you've given me. For my family who loves me and never leaves me even on my darkest days. For giving me such very good friends who's always been my companion and supports me always though may it be good or bad. For my work even though its not the best and i can be proud of type of work, but i wanted to thank you for giving me this work for i have learned a lot. I know, i have a lot of things and people to be thankful for but I wanted to thank you lord for giving me 1 that had given me a lot to be thankful for. Thank you god for my life and for everything. Thank you lord for loving me unconditionally. Lord, I will be always and forever be thankful for everything. Amen.
We may have the best "best friends" we could ever have and as many as we wish we could, but life changes. People change, and people change for a lot of reason. Reasons that sometimes are not acceptable, or we can't think of. No matter what we do and no matter what it maybe. We should always believe that we have this gift of friendship that should be treasured for all times. Even though its hard to accept, we must think of what they had given us. Friendship and all the beautiful memories that no one could ever take.
"Friends for keeps"...
